Decision Kise Kaihte Hai?

Hum Apni Life Mein Sahi Decision Kaise Le?

How to take decision?

Aap Apni Life Mein Koi Bhi Decision Lene Se Pahle Ye 3 Baatein Khud Se Jarur Puche:-

• Aap woh decision kyu le rahe hai?

• Agar woh decision sahi hua to aapke life mein kya positive changes honge?

• Agar woh decision galat hua toh aapke life pe kitna farq padh sakta?

Friends maine apni life mein bahut se aise decision liye hai jo mere liye galat sabit hue mein jaise ki motivational videos dekhke ke, josh me, dukhi hoke, khushi mein etc. isliye mein aapko jo bhi bata rha hu woh mere life ke experience se maine sikha hai and I hope ki aapne isse kuch jarur sikha hoga and friends next topic ke liye comment section mein comment karein

Talent kya hai?

Talent bas aapka myth hai, aapne usi ko apna beileve bana liya hai but talent jaisi koi cheej nahi hoti hai. Talent wahi hota hai jise aap bachpan se abhi tak experience lete aaye hain. Aap apne talent ko usee tarah banaate hain jiss tarah aapka environment hota hai example- Doctor, Engineer, Chartered Accountant, Singer, Peon, Driver etc. agar aap doctoro ke environment rahenge toh aap doctor hi banenge aur agar aap peon ya driver ke environment me rahenge toh aap wahi bann jayenge. Aisa issliye hota hai kyuki aap usi daire me sochne lagte hai usse kuch bada sochte hai aur kisi ko batate hai toh woh dusra person kaihta hai ki bass-bass jameen pe aa jao jyada udo nahi and ye baat toh aapko har ghar mein sunne ko mil hi jayegi ki "jitni badi chadar ho utna hi pair pasaro".

Kya aapka talent aapke birth ke pahle se hai?

No! Aapke birth ke baad se hai aapka talent jaise-jaise aap bade hote jaate hai aapke acche experience se aapka talent banta chala jata h. Aapka talent unn chijo pe depend hota h jise karne mein aapko accha feel ho aur uski log taarif kare.

Ye talent humare andar kaise aata hai?

Jab aap baby the toh aap kuch bhi kar dete the jaise garam chijo ko chhu dena, chalte fan mein haath daal dena, electricity socket mein haath daal dena, koi bhi chij apne muh me utha ke daal lena chahe woh poision ki tablet (chuhe ko maarne ki medicine) hi kyun na ho etc.

Phir dheere- dheere aap bade hote hai aur apne experience (mummy papa ke daat se unki maar se, news se, kisi incident se, kisi accident se, logo ko dekh ke, books padh ke, logo ki baaton ko sunn ke) sikhte rahte hai ki aapke liye kya galat hai aur kya sahi hai.

Jab aap baby the toh kisi bhi chij ko bade dhayan se dekhte aur sunte the kyu ki uss samay sabhi baccho ka concentration power high and strong hota hai but jaise-jaise aap bade hote hai waise-waise aapka concentration power kam hota jata hai uski wajah bahut saari hai jaise girl friend, boy friend, porn movies, alcholic addiction, movies addicition, funny memes etc. inhe continuosly dekhte ya sunte rahne se aap har thodi-thodi der me divert hote rahte hai and aap na chahte hue bhi apna pura time waste karte rahte hai.

Jab hum logo ko kisi kaam ko karte hue dekhte hai uss time hume dekhne mein accha lagta hai aur usi time log uss insaan ki taarif kar de toh wahi chij humare andar baithe jaati hai jise ki fantasy bhi kahte hai. aur phir usi chij ko hum bhi try karte hai agar woh kaam humse ho gaya aur log taarif karne lagte hai toh wahi aapka"Talent" bann jata hai and dusri taraf wahi kaam aap kare aur samay koi aapka majak udaye ya bole ki tujhse na ho payega to aap uss kaam to chhod dete hai and dusra koi kaam search karne lagte hai and aisa sirf iss liye hota hai kyun ki "Hum humesha logo ki success dekhke uss kaam ko karne ke liye aajate jai uske peche ka hardwork nahi dekhte".

Aapko aapka talent pata hote hue bhi aap usspe kaam kyu nahi kar pate?

Aap koi bhi kaam karte hai toh apne mind se hi karte hai agar woh kisi kaam ko karne se mana karde toh aap nahi karte but kisi bhi tarah aapne agar woh kaam karna suru bhi kar diya kuch motivational videos dekh ke, ya motivational quotes ya thoughts padh ke toh sirf 2-4 din tak ya bahut hua toh 1 week tak karte hai aur phir sab chhod dete hai and back to normal ho jate hai it means jaisi aapki life pahle chal rahi thi aap usi life ko phir se jine lagte hai.

Apne mind to fix kaise karein jisse aap jo bhi karna chahein woh kar payein?

How to identify your talent

Mind ko fix karne ke liye aapko sabse pahle apne mind pe kaam karna hoga uski root ko find karna hoga aapko every time apne har movement ko observe karte rahna hoga aur aap khud se loyal rahenge and promise karenge ki isee next time improve karna hai waise toh aapko 1 din me changes nahi milega but aapko ispe dheere-dheere kaam karte rahna hai and jab aap aisa karenge toh isse rokane ke liye iska sabse bada opponent stress aapke samne aayega aur aapke mind ko divert karne ki koshish karega jisse ki aap stress mein aake self improvement ko chhode but phir bhi aapko isse chhodna nahi hai iska datt ke saamna karna hai.

Kya hume stress se chuttkara mil sakta hai?

Yes! Aapko stress se chuttkara mil sakta hai but uske liye hume thoda sa apne upar kaam karna hoga jaise ki yoga, body weight workout (pull-ups, push-ups, squats, skipping, walking, running), meditation. Inme se koi ek hi kare and sirf 5 mins and har din badal-badal ke karna hai jisse aap bore na ho and jab isee karne me accha feel ho toh aap dheere-dheere iska time badha bhi sakte hai but max. 40 min isse jayada exercise nhi karni hai. And aapko ye kosish karni hai ki aap apni exercise nature ke saath karen jaise ki park me, chhat pe etc. and kosish kare ki meditation akele mein peace environment mein kare jaha aapko koi disturbance na ho and Jab aap aisa karnege toh aapko khud hi feel hoga ki aapke nature, behaviour, thoughts, decision, anger etc. me change aa rha hai and apne deit pe bhi pura dhayan dena hai fruits and vegetables apne diet plan mein add karna hain junk food stress ka sabse bada karan hai use avoid karen week mein sirf ek baar hi khayen and aap apne self improvement ke baare mein kisi se kuch na bataiyega agar aapne aisa kiya toh woh insaan aapko bina wajah check karne ke liye pareshan kar sakta hai and tab aap phir se wahi aa jayenge jaya se aapne suru kiya tha and phir sab chhodke back to normal ho jayenge.

Ye mera experience hai mujhe one year laga improve karne me and meine iss article me jo bhi bataya hai woh maine pahle apne upar try kiya hai then aapko bata raha hoon.

"Next kess topic pe aapko article chahiye comment section me comment karen"